One of my closest and dearest friends and also one of my daughter’s godmothers (yes, she has two) just announced her engagement a couple of weeks ago. To say that I am over the moon is an understatement but as you engaged and married ladies know, what comes after the engagement, the wedding plans and before that the Bachelorette Party.
Since, our group doesn’t have the budget for a Parisian-themed blowout à la Bridesmaids (if you haven’t seen this movie, please do), but that doesn’t mean the bride-to-be should settle for boring or less than memorable event.
Now this is New York City, so what seems like heading to a bar or fancy smancy restaurant (both options), that may not be what she wants but there other ways to host a memorable ladies’ night out sans the life-size cookie and gut-wrenching bar tab, so here six ideas to hosting a memorable bachelorette party.
1. Get Out of Town
This is the ideal option but not always the most economical. There are ways to reduce the costs associated with an all-girls getaway, but be prepared to plan well in advance. First, consider a one-night stay somewhere nearby, or relatively close to attendees’ respective homes. Once a location is established, let party-goers know the details so they can get booking. Find party accessories online for less, and outfit the bride in a little girl’s tiara for up to 75-percent less than speciality retailers.
2. Scavenger Hunt
Channel your inner child and create a scavenger hunt for the bride, complete with challenges to solicit free drinks from strangers and requests for silly photos. If you live in a big city, check out StrayBoots for inexpensive packages tailored for bachelorette parties and be prepared to uncover unknowns in your hometown.
3. At-home Wine Tasting
If the bride-to-be isn’t into the bar-hopping-male-stripper scene, consider hosting an at-home wine tasting. Cut costs by asking attendees to bring a bottle of their favorite wine-and-snack duo. You’ll need a wine glass for every attendee, plus water and bread to serve as palette cleansers. If you want to go all out, consult this advice from Real Simple magazine.
4. Lots of Laughs
The stress of wedding planning is likely getting to everyone, so a night full of laughter might just be what the doctor ordered. Check out your local comedy club and call ahead for front-row seating. Make yourselves known to the entertainers by ordering bachelorette-themed party wear online, making sure to grab free shipping codes from sites like FreeShipping.org to avoid delivery charges.
5. Paint & Sip
If you haven’t yet taken advantage of the paint and sip trend, consider this your golden opportunity. What better way to celebrate the bride’s pending nuptials than with a wine-laden arts and crafts session? Hit up Google for a nearby studio, or better yet, tap into a friend’s artistic talent by having her lead the session at someone’s home.
6. Bridal Bowling
You’ll get plenty of attention as a group of all-girls in a bowling alley, but consider taking it a step further by outfitting the bride and attendants in the worst available versions of thrift-store wedding attire. Call ahead to reserve a couple lanes and talk to the manager about available packages, including pre-ordered food and a personal attendant. Let the good times roll!
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Thanks to Andrea Woroch, a consumer and money-saving expert for Kinoli Inc for her tips. For more savings tips, follow Andrea on Facebook and Twitter.
Great ideas! My bachelorette party was not typical as it was at a pottery/jewelry making place. I did not want the typical “get drunk/strip bar” party – that just wasn’t my style!